In the last newsletter, we listed some “red flags” to look out for in friendships at school. On a more positive note, this week we thought we’d share some “green flags”. Green flags are characteristics in friends who support and look out for your best interest as well as their own. They indicate positive, healthy relationships at any age.

Some common green flags include:

Respect: A friend who treats you with respect and dignity, and values your opinions and feelings, is a positive influence.

Trustworthiness: A friend who is honest and dependable, and keeps confidences, is someone you can count on.

Supportiveness: A friend who is there for you in good times and bad, and provides emotional support, is a true friend.

Mutual interests: A friend with whom you share common interests and enjoy spending time together is a positive relationship.

Good communication: A friend who is a good listener and open to discussing problems and resolving conflicts is important for a healthy relationship.

Positive attitude: A friend who has a positive outlook on life, and brings energy and joy to your life, is a valuable addition to your support network.

Healthy boundaries: A friend who respects your boundaries and doesn't pressure you to do things you're uncomfortable with, is someone you can trust.

It's important to seek out and maintain friendships with people who exhibit these green flags, as they can bring happiness, support, and fulfillment to your life. If any of your friends exhibit any of these traits, keep them close and support them in the same way they support you.